Introduction to Zero Distance Communication Course

Training duration: 2 days (8:30-18:00)

Number of people required: 40-50 people are recommended

Number of teaching assistants: 7-9 (teaching assistants and staff need to arrive at the venue the afternoon before the training and arrange the venue)

Venue requirements: 1/3-1/2 of the space is free after all the students sit down, equipped with a stage, a stool, adjustable lights, air conditioning, headset, hand microphone, Mixing console, transmitter, audio, projector and projection screen (communicate according to the actual situation); Convenient drinking water, convenient garbage disposal in the tea spot, and the bathroom should not be too far away. It must be quiet and not disturbed; Note: The training venue and teaching assistant accommodation are generally arranged in the hotel for the convenience of the mentor and teaching assistant to rest at noon, and are required to be clean and quiet. (Previously, it was mostly in four star hotels)

Course benefits: If you master the art of zero distance communication, you can be freed from more specific tasks and achieve the same effect with less energy, less time, and less expenditure; You can comprehensively enhance your communication, negotiation, and persuasive abilities, enabling you to have harmonious interpersonal relationships; More importantly, it will greatly improve and progress your relationships with parents, children, and partners; You will find that many people are willing to approach you and have a significant increase in influence. Mastering the mysteries of action, knowing how to drive oneself and others, unconsciously making progress for those around you; If you are the parent of a child under the age of 18, taking this course may change your and your child's lives as a result.

Course features: The course "Zero Distance Communication" originates from the famous psychology course NLP and the practical application of NLP coaching techniques. Supervisor Jin Guowei (certified senior executive of NLP University in the United States), after 10 years of research on NLP and NLP coaching technology, has integrated practical psychology courses such as Enneagram of Personality Analysis, Satya, and Family Constellations, and has carefully developed a two-day zero distance communication course based on observation of a large number of concrete examples in real life. Using simple and easy to understand language, interspersed with a lot of experiential exercises, each student can experience new gains in the participatory learning process. The two-day course is lively and lively, leaving a completely different and profound impression on each student.

Who wants to take the course 'Zero Distance Communication'

Perhaps as your child grows up, you unconsciously realize:

The child's communication with you is becoming less and less, and they are unwilling to talk to you more.

The child begins to rebel, and when you say something, he/she is unwilling to listen, and sometimes even tries to find ways to get right with you.

The child's grades are unstable, but they are powerless.

Perhaps over time:

You find that things at home are getting more and more complicated, and you don't have the heart to fully handle them, but your family always doesn't understand.

Your parents always use their past life experiences to help you educate your children, and you feel that conflicts are increasing.

Your partner has countless complaints and is easily angry; Or when they meet, they have nothing to say.

Perhaps you have just started working and have a beautiful vision for the future, but you have found that:

You get stuck in daily trivialities and almost forget where to go.

You begin to feel trapped in another job.

You begin to feel like you are being led by life's nose.

Perhaps you are a leader, leading your own team, but you have found that:

The past leadership style is not very effective anymore.

The customary leadership method of increasing salary can no longer fully motivate your employees.

I find that competition is becoming increasingly fierce, but I don't know where to break through.

Perhaps you have already achieved some success in your career, but you often feel frustrated by the extra effort you put in:

There are countless nights when you cannot have dinner with your family.

Countless holidays, you have to drag your tired body back to your office.

You keep asking yourself, where did the free time you wanted to earn from starting a business go?

No matter where you are now, you don't want to continue. If you want to:

☆ Let your child emerge from the blue and surpass the blue;

☆ Find more time-saving, labor-saving, and worry free work methods;

☆ Obtain free time while realizing Financial independence;

Get along better with people around you (lovers, family, friends, colleagues...);

☆ More and more people like you

So the course 'Zero Distance Communication' can help you!

Course content:

1. Mysterious companions and treasures

In this section, each student randomly selects one person from among the other students as their own treasure. During the two-day training, the student can quietly bring various thoughtful warmth to their treasure: a cup of boiling water, a card, a fruit... Let their treasure feel the continuous positive energy brought by the mysterious partner. In this process, each student naturally develops a sense of familiarity towards all unfamiliar students, holds a friendly and sincere attitude towards everyone, and invisibly brings people closer. This approach melted the barriers between strangers and allowed all participants to take the first step in communication.

2. Remove your guard and break through obstacles

You must have the feeling that in a strange situation, facing a group of strangers, you have built a high protective wall in your heart, unwilling to enhance communication with others, such a vicious cycle, and then you increasingly feel the coldness and heartlessness of the world. But zero distance communication mobilized the students' bodies and language, broke down the barriers between people, and filled the entire activity room with the joy and joy of first acquaintance. The students have met more people and gained more new friends through the 1-2-4-8 communication mode.

3. Coach style communication, searching for inner answers

A good way of communication can instantly bring people closer and turn strangers into friends. Coach style communication aims to guide the parties involved in their own thinking and judgment, help them understand their true thoughts, and make people relax. Each student uses coaching style communication and command style communication to communicate with another student about their recent problems. In this attempt, the students truly felt the advantages of coaching style communication. I think she's helping me awaken my own inner thoughts, "" This way makes me feel more relaxed, no pressure, no sense of urgency, "... Indeed, coach style communication is different from imperative communication, it can help the parties awaken their true thoughts and make satisfactory decisions on their own.

4. The importance of practice

Can you stop clapping your hands when you hear command four after completing one, two, and three with your palms? Perhaps for the first time, many people will clap their hands four times without thinking. If you practice multiple times, will you still make mistakes?

Learning any new knowledge or skill requires continuous practice to strengthen it. Therefore, NLP coaching techniques emphasize that after learning and understanding a new way of communication, we can use various opportunities to practice, strengthen, and internalize that communication skill, which in turn becomes a new habit.

5. Amidst the vast sea of people, resolve indifference in a friendly way

The mentor and teaching assistant led the students to play indifferent roles in the vast crowd, during which they felt their loneliness and loneliness. Later, when they could smile, shake hands, and embrace others, everyone experienced a different feeling, which was warm and emotional. The vast crowd segment is to allow students to experience different feelings of getting along with others. When everyone is indifferent, even if they really want to smile and greet others at the time, their desire to smile will gradually disappear and be assimilated. After having such a deep feeling, everyone can truly realize that in communication with others, they should face each other positively, care for others more, smile more, shake hands more, and embrace more. This can narrow the distance between each other, eliminate loneliness, fear, and loneliness.

6. Praise and care, allowing warmth and emotion to flow

Group each team member to give praise and praise to each member of their own group. The commendation process is to make students feel the meaning of commendation and praise. In fact, when communicating with others, we should not be stingy with your praise, just like in "Water knows the answer". When we hear praise or a beautiful song, the water will become crystal clear, but on the contrary, it will become scattered. This is also worth our contemplation. Through a large number of lively games, students can experience, learn, think, and comprehend through personal participation and interaction: when interacting with others, they should care more about others, smile more, shake hands more, and embrace more; When communicating, use more positive vocabulary, praise and praise, so that the person you praise and praise will be more confident and progress.

7. Apples and straws, believe in yourself

Do you believe that a straw can penetrate an apple? This is a bold and incredible idea that ordinary people may find incredible, and of course, this answer can only be revealed through one's own attempt. Each student holds an apple in their left hand, a straw in their right hand, and presses one end of the straw with their thumb. Upon hearing the command, they quickly insert the straw into the apple... Through this game, every student can learn to believe in themselves, and even the greatest difficulties can be overcome.

8. Balance the wheels and heal yourself

A practical tool that allows us to master balance skills. Each student writes their eight most important life areas outside the balance wheel and constructs their own balance wheel based on the scores in the areas. Afterwards, the mentor gave a detailed evaluation based on the balance wheels of the students. The most important part of the balance wheel is to ask oneself, "How satisfied am I with this aspect of life now?" For each grid, on a scale of 1-10, the biggest significance of the balance wheel is to refine the big goals, and the smaller the goals, the easier it is for us to achieve them. Balance is dynamic, so it is a process, not an end. Therefore, it needs to be evaluated from a long-term perspective, and the length of time it takes depends on the specific situation. Therefore, we recommend calling on you or the parties involved to do different balance skills at different times, and then do them again after a certain period of time, which can be more effective. For example, balance wheels can be used to analyze and improve oneself in various aspects of life, work, and family.